Clever people= Less need for friendship?!?

Its supposed to be my J1 class gathering today.. But it seems like they rarely have a sucessful gathering.. So far this is the 4th one, but the turnup rate is quite bad.. Esp the gals side. And tonight, the class gathering will become a guys gathering from class gathering.. I would have gone if only more gals attend. If I did not go, its not that bad as I am only with the class for 1 year. Then I drop Bio to take Chem, Phy, Maths. But What abt the rest? Dun they feel like seeing each other, catching up with one another? Or are they really that busy that they cannot even take out some time? I dunno.. But I pity the one who organise the outing so relentlessly. I feel guilty not going. Its also nice to catch up with friends.. but.. Hmm.. maybe our friendship are just superfacial ones since we are all to busy studying in J1. Sad..